This year has been emotionally draining in general, for everyone. Then throw in some family, work, health, or any other kind of wrench that can be thrown into the mix…it just adds to the already heightened state of anxiety and stress.
I see the text come through, “Are you busy?” This is a little prelude to know that something is going on. It doesn’t matter what I am doing, I know that I need to instantly drop what I am doing. That is what we do for the ones we care about. In that moment, they need to be heard, listened to, and know that someone cares. This is where my professional life intersects with my personal life. I am a not just a social worker for my day job, I would say it is who I am all the time. It is just me. I hear the words, “I’m fine” or “I’m good” but I know that trick. I say it all the time as a means of self-preservation. I know what I need to do. It is time for a visit to have a quick hug, the smile of familiar face or just a quick reassurance that you are not alone… I am here for you – whenever you need me. The thing is you don’t have to be “fine,” I will be here to pick up the pieces, hold your hand or just listen.
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3/19/2021 04:20:19 am
I am thinking of the humanity and the heart of this sentence, which was the center of your Slice:
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Michelle Strezo
3/19/2021 10:46:29 pm
I sure try to be!!
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EugeniaKouts
3/19/2021 07:38:50 pm
I am so happy that your family has you and all your resources available to them. How reassuring to know that you are always there for those you love, including me. I hope we can all return the hug and love when you need it. ❤😘
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3/20/2021 02:28:40 am
Words that need to be on billboards and bumper stickers - shouted from the rooftops. "The thing is you don’t have to be “fine".
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trina
3/20/2021 08:12:26 pm
You are probably the reason I never needed to go to therapy! Thanks for always being there when I am good and for always listening when Im fine :)
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Natasha
3/20/2021 08:22:54 pm
That last paragraph is so lovely and important!
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